Did you know if you are fat girl among your family and close friends that you are the exception to all the fat people jokes and rules? Seriously it is true just ask one of my 4 brothers. They have always dated and married thin very pretty women. My 2 almost 3 sister in laws are no exception they are all thin and gorgeous! I know they are laughing right now if they are reading this but it is true.
The reason I bring this up is because one of my brothers was telling me about this girl he met in person after talking with her online and how he really was not attracted to her. I asked him why and he told me “you can tell she just didn’t take care of herself, she was heavy.” I laughed and said “well excuse me does that mean I don’t take care of myself?” he quickly replied “no of course not you and Mom have class.” Great cover up I must say!
Growing up around 4 boys I learned quickly what is attractive to the average male. It is sort of ironic because my Mom and I are both over weight and always have been. Time and time again we have been told by my Dad and brothers “you are not like that” or “you are not fat” Funny because the truth of the matter is many times in comparison we have been that fat and just like that! My brothers are great guys, don’t get me wrong. Obviously thier eyes do no work right and they cannot see that my Mom and I are over weight so that even makes them better!
I wonder what they would say if I wore a bikini to our next family get together?! I bet they would see it then! lol
XO to my blind brothers! Shannon